People, people who f*ck people (not in that way either)

Okay, so this is my first entry. This is not a diary or a "oh my, learn about me I wish I were famous blog." It is more so a rantings, ravings and commentary about--life I guess. I would not want to limit myself to one thing.

First off.

People.

I will spare the pseudo-comedic Seinfeld "did you ever notice.." opener and go straight to the point. What has been bugging me as of late.

My issue at the moment is how pathetic some people make themselves. To start off the book "he is just not that into you" really should not have ever needed to be written. I was once a hater of it and laughed at the success of it. (But holy shit he is rich from common sense!) Point is that I thought it was pathetic. But after seeing more situations unfold in front of my unwilling eyes I realize such crap only exists because of all the crappy people. I mean seriously it should be deathly obvious when someone does not like you and if it isn't that it fine in some cases (a few people are truly ambiguous) but most of the time it is as clear as day.
Hypothetical Situation 1...okay maybe not.

Instead. I was thinking recently about friendship. It has because increasingly obvious that it is hard for a guy and a girl to be friends. (Yeah I know, wow, eureka, I made a breakthrough. Not.) But really it is hard. A friend of mine was recently told by her friend (who is literally like a brother to her--as she has known him since they were babies) that she would never have guy friends like him and the other guy they have also known forever. She argued that it was probably true but still possible. Okay I do not propose such concrete statements as this guy said and I would never say those relationships do not exist, merely that they are rare. As her friend said, "someone will f*ck it up." We are not talking coworker, classmate, acquaintances in groups etc, but more so close friends who talk a lot and just, I dunno, do 'friend' stuff. Many times someone will indeed "f*ck" it up but if there is an actual friendship based on more than games and romantic intent then these awkward moments can be overcome. If both parties put away their loser pride.

This issue in itself has not been irking me really rather, for me, it has been the willingness of women to throw other women under a metaphorical bus to get a guy. Especially a guy who is either not worth getting or not even a possibility.

Sisterhood is extremely rare too and I know I have done more then my fair share of bragging--I have 2 of the best girlfriends ever--but even if you do not yet, you might. I would just advise people that this life is so full of crap jobs and chaos that it becomes harder to meet and become close to people so when you think you have met a friend who could be one for life don't sacrifice her atop a temple of whores to get male attention.

This has happened to me as well as other g/f's on more than one occasion. And what I find really pathetic are the girls who are just now learning or worse--still doing this at 21 (and over). It is time to grow up. You will maybe, if you are lucky, find someone to spend your life with and when that happens do not let anyone take it from you. You will also, however, and only if you are lucky, find friends who will be there for you no matter what and who love you. And in this as well do not let others take it away--especially the aforementioned life mate. I think the worst part of this is that 99.99% of the time friendships are not thrown away over a potential "soul mate" (I apologize for using the word to some of you) but rather they are tossed aside like used toilet paper for jealousy and ignorance.

Ladies, sometimes when a g/f is looking out for you and telling you something you might not want to hear it is because she loves you so much that she needs to help and put her beliefs out there. And guys, same. When a friend warns you about someone maybe take a step back and way the options....see who have the PUREST intent.

Squabbles happen (did I say squabbles?) and at times both parties are in the wrong--learn to get over it.

But--

-for the times when you know you are being sacrificed like a virgin on a step pyramid run away. The girl doing this to you (and usually to get attention from anyone with a weenie) is not worth the time and energy.

Most of this probably did not make much sense as I am tired and too annoyed to write properly. But I will no doubt be writing on similar topics again soon.
Until then,
Blessings.